This is NOT pedobear approved

*GAH DAMMIT… I gotta stop using my outside conversations for writing muses…*

Actually this post is not of our usual funny banter and I was gonna write it in my personal blog, but meh…. it don’t really pertains to me per-say. As I was talking to a long time buddy of mine a few weeks ago we somehow got on the subject of losing virginity, sibling rivalery, sex, age differences… blah…blah…blah…(how all those subjects intertwined, I still don’t know) and don’t even ask HOW that subject came up.

Then… out the blue, 10 minutes into another conversation…

Them: “Yo, you just don’t understand, this nygah did some really hateful shyt to me!!!”
Me: “Err?” o_0? “Like?”
Them: Some ole pedophila type shyt!
Me: X_X! “Oh!………………………Like  what?”
Them: “What do you think? And do you think Moma did anything about it when I told her?”
Me: “Wait…. Wait a damn minute… you mean like….?”
Them: “Yes”

This is where things got a little “whoa… should I be hearing this?”: I inquired why did they have such deep resentment against their brother, but at the same time looks up to him. They went on and on about what their brother has done for them financially since they both became adults.  However (comma) shyt still wasn’t adding up to the hatred.

I then started to ponder over the contents of this conversation, and whether or not I really want to indulge in asking questions and spilling secrets, whilst I was thinking back to my own encounters of hunching back before I lost my virginity. Then I started thinking about my kids (two daughters) and what have they done that some might consider curosity vs. knowing it is wrong Wrong WRONG. Jesus………….

Just know that this is our blog and I will write what I want. So that being said, I will openly admit I did some shyt when I was a kid prior to actual intercourse/penetration (which is considered losing ones virginity right?) with my friends older brother like 3/4 years older than me that I KNEW I had NO business doing. It wasn’t out of curiosity. I knew that what I was seeing and what he was suggesting (because he was older), and letting him cop a feel here and there was for ADULTS only. Meaning consensual adults. I had a frame of mind knowing I had NO business partaking in that, however, I didn’t feel as if it was like 100% bad.

So back to the person I was referencing… did their brother do to them that was considered curiosity shyt? Or was it down right wrong? They never did fully go into graphic details about what actually happened, and I definitely wasn’t about to inquire more than they was willing to tell. And since I know their CURRENT sexual behavior (not personally), I know that by all definition, they are “normal”.

Since I am no kind of psychologist or psychiatrist or whatever I guess I don’t know how to relate the feelings that person had against their brother or even remotely tell them how to deal with that anomisity. However it did pose a question of when KIDS have curious thoughts about sex, what  is considered a inappropriate age gap to be exploring that curiosity?Now of course we know that a 15 year old is not curious to a 3/4/5 year old. But in the case of the person I was referencing, they are only about 3 years difference in age.

Just some thoughts worth writing down. Any smart ass comments that I don’t like will be deleted. Remember this is our blog and we can write what we want!

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