Big Sexy’s Guide For Women To Meet Practical Men

I AM LEGEND

Ladies, let’s face it. Meeting a decent guy is hard. Off the top of your head, where is the first place you would go if you want to meet a guy? You said the club didn’t you? I know you did. Well you are not alone. Thousands of women everyday would answer that question the same way you did. What is the problem with meeting guys in the club? Well nothing really. Clubs are meant for people to go and have a good time, hangout and meet others. Problem is a club is a “casual hookup spot” for most guys. And when I say “casual hookup spot” what I really mean is a club is conducive to facilitating the sexual interactions with women we are not in a relationship with whereby we can take you home (or to the car) and proceed to give you the best three minutes of steamy hot sex and the introduction of the Birmingham Booty Call.

Conversely, most women go to the club (as you have already said) to meet guys. Guys come to the club to try and sleep with you, women come to the club to meet with you. Do you see the how this is a problem? The expectation from each side is wrong from the start.

Ladies, I have a some ideas of where you stand to meet a quality guy in places other than a club. This just to scratch the surface, I offer the following suggestions for your consideration:

Church– I know. You’re thinking this is the status quo but I’m not just talking about a guy that sits in a pew on Sunday’s.  You want someone who is involved and vested in the church, that serves or provides service to others, that donates his time and talents in committees and ministries and is rooted in his spiritual home.  Trust me, someone with these characteristics is a much better stab in the dark that saying “he goes to church”.  Having a relationship with Jesus would be advisable as well.  (Don’t want to assume that you guys already knew that.  It would also help you if you had a relationship with Jesus too.)

Home Depot-To me this is obvious.  Anytime a guy takes some initiative to figure out how to change out his own plumbing, learn how to tile or put down hardwood floors or do small home projects, that is a good potential start.  Odds are this guy is budget conscience, motivated and has in own house.  And if he is in Home Depot buying stuff to fix somebody else’s house, well then you just found a handyman.

Steve Harvey‘s Dating Game– Since all of yall think that Steve Harvey is the greatest relationship expert ever, you should try to get on his show.  I think you should let him help you pick out your next date.  After all, he has written two successful books and has had a series of successful marriages. And right now, Steve is working on finding a date for Comedian Sheryl Underwood.  If he finds a date for Sheryl there is hope for the ugliest of you. Please call 1-877-29-STEVE.

Barnes & Nobles– Why Barnes & Nobles?  Because Thugs don’t read. If they do read, they don’t read that good and they definitely wouldn’t be in the NY Times Best Seller Section of a bookstore. (I am aware that “don’t read that well” would have been more grammatically correct. If you are worrying about my grammar instead of heeding my advice I hope the next time you have sex he gives you an Alabama Hot Pocket.)

Boyz II Men Concert-Any dude to venture off to a Boyz II Men concert either has really good taste in soulful harmonies or is Wanya Morris‘ gay stalker. Chances are he is just a regular dude that enjoys music that is not about cars, rims, sex, black & yellow, syrup, drugs or anything Nicki Minaj. But rather of love, passion, romance and life.

Nursing Home– A guy that is visiting his elderly mother or grandmother (on regular basis) means that he has some priority of what is important. If this man works and has other things going on in his life, he has allocated time to spend with a loved one. He is caring individual.  Conversely, you roaming the hallways of the nursing home scoping out potential men is a bit creepy.

Airport– Specifically guys in a business suit on an airplane. This may mean you have to start buying random plane tickets when Southwest runs a $39 special if you don’t actually have a job that requires travel but it could pay off. Keep in mind, meeting this type of guy only ensures that he has a job. But this is better than meeting the guy in the club that makes rap demos in his parents guest room.

Sorry ladies, this one is for the guys. Salsa Class-Guys, Salsa Classes are an awesome place to meet women.  I did this before but with a past girlfriend so my eyes couldn’t wander far but there was plenty of nice looking women there.  And to take it a step further once you get the salsa lessons down there is the Salsa Club.  That’s right, a Salsa Club with hot Latina Women.  A Black Man that knows how to meringue in a room full of Latina Women………you’ll walk into that room like “I Am Legend”.

So Foolish Intelligence Community, what did I leave out?  There has got to be some better places you women have met men at that you care to share with our female readers.  And guys, why don’t you tell the ladies where you guys are at?

And you’re welcome ladies.

Big Sexy